Last weekend, we went camping with our fifteen month old son. It was our third camping trip, but this time it was a bit different. We were one of about fifty families who were at the 2014 Sling Dads Family Camp at Sherratts Wood in Staffordshire. Sling Dads are a group who promote baby wearing and its benefits for dads. On their website, they talked about their reasons for planning a camp back in February.
On this blog, I’ve talked about baby wearing a few times. Last October, I blogged about going to a village called Sling to mark International Babywearing Week and also attitudes to baby wearing from around the world. In February of this year, I wrote about how taking our son to the supermarket in a sling had become a father and son bonding activity.
The previous time we’d stayed in a tent with our son, he was just under four months old. With him now being older and more mobile, I’d been a bit worried about how we’d manage to keep an eye on him and manage to put up our tent. Getting it properly assembled took us about an hour and a half the first time we stayed in it a few years ago, but we’ve got this time down to about 10-15 minutes now. Nevertheless, assembling it all can sometimes be a stressful experience that helps to explain why camping is sometimes referred to as an ‘in tents experience’. Thankfully our son happily played with a spare tent pole as we put up the tent.
Our son was son making friends with a few other toddlers of a similar age as he wandered around the site. As he’s at the babbling rather than talking stage, watching these interactions can be quite fun. Sometimes he just stands and stares at his fellow toddlers. After getting to know a few fellow campers, he was soon enjoying an outside bath.
After falling asleep in a sling by the campfire, he managed to sleep soundly back in the tent despite a thunderstorm and several flashes of lightning. In fact, this is more than can be said for mum and dad! He was also kind enough to allow us what now counts as a Saturday morning lie-in by not wanting to get up until 7.30am.
Some of the activities on the Saturday morning were re-arranged due to heavy rain, but this didn’t really affect our son as he decided to have a two hour nap. After this, he accompanied us to a room where we were able to try a range of slings. He particularly liked the fact that his was taking place in a room meant he could do one of his current favourite things: climb up some stairs. We are gradually trying to introduce him to some other fun activities that don’t involve staircases but are taking it step-by-step.
The rain that had fallen on Friday and Saturday ended up bringing some positives as it provided plenty of puddles for our son to splash about in on a path through the woods on the edge of the camp. In fact, he decided to splash about using both his feet and hands. To cap it all, he decided to sit down in a few puddles as well. Thankfully, we’d decided to put him in a waterproof suit so we just stood there giggling away rather than trying to discourage him from having some messy fun.
Our son enjoyed chasing some bubbles around and then had a quick game of football before dinner. After dinner, he was even kind enough to help me with the washing up before dinner (see picture below). After this, he seemed too excited to sleep so we sat with him around the campfire again and got talking to some of the other families. After a little walk in the sling, he finally nodded off. Popping him in the sling is the way that I normally use to get him to go to sleep in the evening when my wife’s out and breastfeeding him to sleep isn’t an option. I always love seeing and feeling him gradually drift off to sleep.
On Sunday morning, our son was again kind enough to let us stay in bed until 7.30am. We then had a cooked breakfast in the fantastic food tent before it was time for a group photograph of all the happy campers. After packing the tent up, there was more time for exploring the campsite and jumping in puddles before it was time to head back home to North Wales. The weekend had clearly been an exciting one for our son as he slept for almost all of the two hour journey home.
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Ideas4Dads (and Mums Too!)
Jul 22, 2014 @ 21:15:00
We love camping. Each year I and a couple of other dads take eldest kids camping and its so much fun. Am goinf to go and check out the Sling Camping website – sounds fun 🙂
Jonathan
Jul 22, 2014 @ 21:15:57
Yes, it was great fun. They’re planning to do another Sling Dads Family Camp next summer too. The site they used (Sherratts Wood Scout Camp) was ace.
tinagoddess
Jul 22, 2014 @ 22:05:41
I had the pleasure of watching you putting up your tent at SDFC this weekend. I was impressed at how well you worked together, and how much fun your little one had ‘helping’. Some of my best childhood memories are camping with my family. My father was a camping enthusiast and had packing the station wagon down to a fine art. Our favorite camp food was his baking soda biscuits (scones) baked in a cast iron oven buried in the camp fire pit, popped open and slathered with home made raspberry jam and dripping with butter. YUM! Tina ‘Nenaw’
Jonathan
Jul 29, 2014 @ 18:57:16
Thank you, Tina! It was great to see so many families at the camp having a good time. I think it’s great to get into camping as a young age like you described. There are few things that can beat homemade raspberry jam too!
ligtenup
Jul 23, 2014 @ 00:08:40
My wife’s going on a bachelorette party for her sister in August, and I told her maybe I’d go camping with our slightly 4 month old son then…
That idea was NOT received well. Needless to say, I think she shamed me out of it, and my heart’s not broken.
Robert
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rcrown2
Jul 23, 2014 @ 03:50:49
Ha ha ha, “in tents experience”….I love it!
We haven’t taken our 8 month old camping yet, but we have a nice unopened tent I bought before she was born to use when we do. I can’t wait for the day, and hopefully it’s as exciting as yours turned out.
I need to see if there is a babywearing group around here in the states that likes to camp. It’s a long shot, but if it’s like your fun weekend, it’d be worth it!
Deirdre Smith
Jul 23, 2014 @ 12:09:48
We haven’t tried camping with our son yet. It sounds like you have a great time despite the storm.
Frank
Jul 24, 2014 @ 14:34:08
So it CAN be done! My boy is about to turn 2 and I want to introduce him to camping. I might give it a shot before the summer’s done 🙂
Jonathan
Jul 30, 2014 @ 21:06:14
Good luck with it, Frank! I guess camping’s the sort of thing that can be a very different experience depending on how a child responds to it. Still, nothing to be lost by trying it out while they’re still young!
cassfrugalfamily
Jul 27, 2014 @ 18:51:21
Thanks for the ideas and thanks for linking up with the Parenting Pin it Party this week x x
Jonathan
Jul 30, 2014 @ 21:04:04
It was great to drop by and check out the posts, I’ll be back! 🙂
Jill
Jul 27, 2014 @ 19:16:50
Camping with little ones can be a lot of fun, I am so glad your family had the experience!
Thank you for stopping by the Thoughtful Spot Weekly Blog Hop this week. We hope to see you drop by our neck of the woods next week!
Jonathan
Jul 30, 2014 @ 21:01:57
It’s so true about camping being fun!
I really enjoy catching up with the posts at the Thoughtful Spot every week!
Merlinda Little (@pixiedusk)
Jul 28, 2014 @ 07:55:23
It is not safe to camp in my country. Let alone go out your gate at night so I dont have any camping memory as a child. Which is what we are making here to make up for the lost camping times of my youth. We love camping and before we are just borrowing tent, now we got ourselves one, cheap from gumtree and my son loves it. It is so hard to make him go home =P #pocolo
Jonathan
Jul 29, 2014 @ 18:58:41
It’s great to hear that you and your family really enjoy camping as well, it’s such a great activity!
DannyUK (@DannyUK)
Jul 28, 2014 @ 08:11:02
Sounds like a fun weekend. I’m not a camping fan, and the thought of going with a toddler terrifies me! Thanks for linking up again. #FamilyFriday
Jonathan
Jul 29, 2014 @ 18:54:05
It certainly was a fun weekend, and our son seemed to really enjoy the experience.
Ty
Jul 28, 2014 @ 14:24:42
I have taken my 18 month old camping when she was 10 months and are going again next weekend. We decided to get a cabin at the camp site this time however. Last yr was no problem as she wasn’t walking and running. Now she is all over when outside, even in the rain. I still wanted to tent it but the wife brings up come good conerns with what would we do it it is raining. She will be opening windows and doors to try and get out getting everything soaked for her and us. I am thinking of taking a closer tent trip, since this is 6 hrs away, so we can still camp this yr. Great times and my town has some free sites for residents at the park.
Jonathan
Jul 29, 2014 @ 18:53:12
I can see what you mean about the confined space of a tent being a bit of an issue if you’ve got a kid who wants to run everywhere and it’s raining. We may have to deal with this too in the next few months.
Cathrinskey
Jul 28, 2014 @ 15:22:44
We’ve just been camping for a few days with our nine month old, it was fab. She’s crawling, so loved that everything was on her level, and once she’d figured out that she could go in and out of the tent she was in heaven. She too was quite happy to be distracted while we set up, but we couldn’t have got the tent down again without a sling as she was having a bad morning (she must have known we were going home!)
Jonathan
Jul 29, 2014 @ 18:50:58
It’s great to hear about your daughter really enjoying camping. Our son’s the same – the first time we took him camping he probably slept better in the tent that he’d been managing in his cot.
Lily
Jul 28, 2014 @ 18:38:18
My husband and I just spent six days camping by bicycle along the Mosel river with our 15 month old daughter. With the river, cliffs and strange dogs always nearby Babywearing was essential. It was a great experience.
Jonathan
Jul 29, 2014 @ 18:49:16
Sounds great, I know what you mean about babywearing making such a difference. I also remember going to the Mosel area when I was studying German at secondary school. I think we stayed in a village called Traben-Trarbach and visited places like Trier, Cochem and Rudesheim.
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Charlee Anne
Jul 30, 2014 @ 13:30:47
I don’t know if I could survive the camping experience with two young kids! Sounds like your son had fun and slept a lot! I bet he couldn’t believe you were letting him play in the puddles.
Jonathan
Jul 30, 2014 @ 20:56:20
It certainly was a fun weekend! I guess it would be a lot more challenging with two small kids. If we had a one year old and a three year old, it could well have been a different story.
Papa_Tont
Aug 01, 2014 @ 06:37:50
I would love to go camping, but my wife is a bit of a glamper. Unless there are proper baths showers and eating areas she will not entertain the idea, maybe when the kids are a little older I will buy the wife a weekend pass to a spa and then we can rough it.
Stacey Guilliatt (Nobody Said It Was Easy)
Aug 04, 2014 @ 20:36:47
We’ve never been, I’ve never really been keen… Looks like you had fun though! #FamilyFriday
Ashley
Aug 27, 2014 @ 21:05:42
It’s amazing the things that will keep their attention (like a tent pole)! Look slike he had a great time with the whole trip!
Sarah Wehkamp
Sep 23, 2014 @ 18:53:09
You are so brave! Just found your blog and this post has inspired (motivated) me to get to camping with my 3 year old twin boys. We might start in the backyard but that’s something right?!
Jonathan
Sep 30, 2014 @ 18:57:16
Thanks for your comments! The first time we went camping with our son, we were staying in the garden of some friends we were visiting and knew that we could go inside if things really didn’t work out. Thankfully, it all went OK anyway.
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