This is a big question and not just because it’s currently National Curry Week here in the UK. In fact, it’s a question that I’d put it in the same category as ‘will our son like haggis?’. For some time, I have looked forward to being able to share my favourite sort of food with our son.
About a year ago, I tweeted ‘been enjoying watching our 6 month old son starting to eat solids – it’s mainly baby rice at the moment, hope we’ll soon be able to give him baby curry’. Within minutes, someone who saw my tweet decided to tweet back with a link to a recipe for vegetable and coconut curry that is suitable for babies as it’s not too spicy. As I haven’t yet made this curry for my son, the fact that it’s National Curry Week here in the UK from 13-19th October seems a good reason to put that right.
Whilst a lot of people are wary about feeding spicy food to babies and toddlers, it seems that this can vary from one culture to another. I remember my mum telling me about a Sri Lankan friend who had little hesitation in feeding spicy dishes to her baby son. So far, our son has had a few mild curries and seems to quite like them. We’ve tried baby led weaning with him, and it’s generally worked fairly well.
The first time I remember having a curry was when I went to an Indian restaurant in St. Andrews (Scotland) with my parents when I was about ten. I loved the flavours of the spices and have been a big fan of curry ever since then. In fact, I have often planned journeys around trips to curry restaurants. From 2002 to 2004, I taught English at a university in Lille (France) and would head back to Leeds five or six times a year as I was registered for a Masters degree at the university there. I would get the Eurostar from Paris to London and make sure that I’d have enough time to have a curry at a fantastic restaurant near Euston station before getting the train up to Leeds.
I’d go as far as saying that the number and quality of Indian restaurants and sweet shops on Drummond Street makes it one of my favourite streets in London. As a vegetarian, I love the fact that there are at least half a dozen Indian vegetarian restaurants on the same street. What is more, several of them do amazing lunch time buffets where it is possible to sample a fantastic range of starters, main courses and desserts. I have sometimes thought that their ‘eat as much as you like’ format could end up making them go bankrupt and me gain a serious amount of weight.
That said, going out for a curry has always been something that I’ve seen as a bit of a treat. We’re lucky to have a really good Indian takeaway called the Sittar in the village where we live. I heard a rumour that they’re going to set up a smaller branch in the village that offers childcare as well as tasty food. Apparently, they’re going to call it the Baby Sittar.
I’d love to visit India one day and sample the cuisine in the land where it originates. There are doubtless various questions one can raise about the ‘authenticity’ of Indian food that is served up in countries such as the UK. In addition to the fact that a lot of what are generally called ‘Indian’ restaurants are run by Bangladeshis or Pakistanis, it may well be the case that the foods served up in some establishments are created in part to appeal to a British palate, However, this issue doesn’t really bother me. I am, after all, a Scotsman who eats vegetarian haggis rather than the traditional meat haggis and who serves this form of the national dish in burger form, in cannelloni or with couscous.
I’ve noticed that curries can often taste slightly different depending on where you are in the world. I haven’t noticed much difference between Indian food that is served in the UK and the US, but it’s not the same story in France or Spain. In France, curries that would be described as mild in the UK are often listed as medium spicy on restaurant menus. When I was in an Indian restaurant in Barcelona, I remember the waiter asking if I wanted the curry I’d ordered to be ‘medium British’ or ‘medium Spanish’.
Foods with an Indian twist form an important part of what we eat on special occasions, and massala nut roast with spicy tomato gravy is definitely one of my favourite vegetarian Christmas meals. It’s particularly good when served with Brussel sprouts that are stir fried with chilli and paneer (and Indian form of cheese). As our son grows up, I hope he’ll come to share our love of Indian food.
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JDaniel4's Mom
Oct 15, 2014 @ 03:11:40
We love Italian food. We haven’t really tried curry!
Jonathan
Oct 15, 2014 @ 21:32:52
Our son’s certainly a fan of Italian food as well. He loves curly shaped pasta that he can eat with his hands.
kidworldcitizen
Oct 15, 2014 @ 11:47:56
This is fantastic:)- we have the same types of questions but related to Mexican food (which is NOT authentic in the US:). Will our child like mole (pronounced mole-ay)? Will our child like ceviche? Will our child like chiles rellenos? 🙂 I am off to try your mild curry recipe to see if my kids will like it!
Jonathan
Oct 15, 2014 @ 21:32:20
It’s great to hear how you deal with similar issues with Mexican food. I’m not sure if our son has had much Mexican food yet but he did quite enjoy nibbling on plain tortilla wraps for a while when he was younger.
Amanda van Mulligen (@AmandavMulligen)
Oct 15, 2014 @ 18:08:20
All 3 of my sons like curry & at least two can take a surprising anount of spicy food. They’ll eat sambal which surprised the owner of our local Chinese restaurant. Start them young I say 🙂
Jonathan
Oct 15, 2014 @ 21:31:17
That’s great to hear, we’re certainly planning to start at a young age when it comes to feeding our son curry!
Carolin
Oct 16, 2014 @ 17:17:00
Amy had her first curry when she was 9 months old and she loved it. In fact, she’s the least fussy child I know. She just loves trying out new and flavoursome foods, I love it!
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Jonathan
Oct 16, 2014 @ 18:01:45
That’s great to hear, I hope things will be like that with our son too!
DannyUK (@DannyUK)
Oct 17, 2014 @ 08:29:43
The phrase “Baby Sittar” has really made me giggle! Cheers for joining in #FamilyFriday
Caroline (Becoming a SAHM)
Oct 17, 2014 @ 14:16:17
Interesting post and lol to the ‘baby sittar!’ As for curries, my hubs is 1/4 Malaysian so curries are a big thing in his family and ours. We introduced monkey to curries fairly early on and although he can be a right fusspot about some things, some of his fave foods have been an indian type curry and a Thai curry. Unfortunately I cant tolerate spicy curries when I’m pregnant, I just cant bear to eat them, so they are not on the menu at the moment! We had a takeaway tikka masala last week though which Monkey couldn’t get enough of so hopefully he will still enjoy curries when I can stomach them again! Xx #familyfriday
Jolanta
Oct 17, 2014 @ 21:24:48
Our baby just turned 2 and she is a big fan of food – any food;) Last week she had some jalapeño sausages in her Irish breakfast and she absolutely loved it. I thought they were rather hot, but what do I know…
Verily Victoria Vocalises
Oct 18, 2014 @ 07:54:31
Oh we adore curry in this house and I must have been about the same age as you when I tried it – my favourite was a chicken korma, gorgeous! I remember giving Grace a little pots version when she was weaning and she loved it. Hope your son does too. Thank you for linking to PoCoLo 🙂
The Uncheshire wife
Oct 18, 2014 @ 14:04:23
Our son (now 14) has always liked different foods, his favourite at the moment is Tapas, I think it’s because we have let him try everything.
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Helen @ Witty Hoots
Oct 21, 2014 @ 09:35:02
I think you are right in being adventurous with the different foods for your son to try. I would always encourage a ‘try’ even if they didn’t like it. Plus as their taste buds develop their love of stronger flavours develop too! Thanks for sharing with this week’s #frugalfamily linky!
Stacey Guilliatt (Nobody Said It Was Easy)
Nov 04, 2014 @ 12:49:48
I love curry so much! Would also love to visit India. My son eats curry at nursery but won’t eat mine, ha! #familyfriday
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